
Last weekend, I spent the day with my little sister Weedy girl. I'm sure you can see the family resemblance...hehe..
She's the youngest of 8, yes you read that right, and no they aren't Catholic. I think sometimes she gets lost in the shuffle of life because it's easy to forget she's only 10, when she's always hung around with her older siblings and their friends. She is 10. And sometimes she's 18. I've been lucky enough to be there from her birth, and remember how long we waited for her to start talking, to now forget there was a time when we were concerned she wasn't talking. I had no fear of falling asleep when I picked her up for a 2 and 1/2 hour drive, since she started jabbering away immediately. I had invited her to go on a kayaking excursion with me two weeks prior, which she had initially been hesitant to go on until I reassured her we would be in a tandem kayak, so I would be literally sitting right behind her. Once that little scare was out of the way, she was excited to spend the day together, reminding me inadvertently that I hadn't made the time to do that for a while. She asked me a couple of times, "just us right?" and I loved her even more for it.
The night before we were scheduled to go, I called to make sure she was all set to go, and see if I needed to bring any extra clothes or snacks. I should have known that she would have been packed for a week. (A couple years ago, she and part of her family were going to the Cape for a weekend, and she was sooo excited she packed her bag a week early. Her mom, kept asking "do you have everything ready?", and weedy would say "yeah mom, I've got everything." They arrived and she had her bathing suit, a towel, and a bag full of her stuffed animals. That was it, no other clothes or anything.)
So I'm on the phone with weedy, and the conversation goes a little like this:
me: Hi baby girl, I'm just calling to see if you're ready to go for tomorrow.
weedy: Yes, Ange I've got my clothes packed, and I got some snacks for us. Do you like raisins that are covered in yogurt? Cause I got some for us.
me: Oh, Ok. Yes I like yogurt covered raisins. I have an extra pair of sandals that will fit you, do you want me to bring them? Do you have a fleece packed too?
weedy: I've got some old sneakers I'm going to wear, and Ange? Know what I got? (me:what?) I bought this jacket with fleece on one side, and a wind breaker on the other side. So I can wear it either way. Oh and I got us some granola bars, some fruit cups, yogurt, some chips, water ...(etc...)
me: (laughing) Are you worried you're going to go hungry? That sounds like a lot of snacks, do you want me to bring a cooler for it all?
w: Oh no, Angie I got this bag that's a cooler, but it looks like a bag. It's really cool.
me: Oh, ok. Well I'll pick you up between 6:30 and 7 tomorrow morning, ok? (w:ok) Actually if you want to have your clothes ready, you can just sleep until I get there and when I wake you up you can get changed. (w: Ok!)
I get off the phone, chuckling at this cute little girl. The next day, I wake her up, and she decided to sleep in the clothes she was going to wear to save time :-) We head off and she's talking about cars, people, pets, and everything under the sun.
Then she decides to ask about HG & my wedding...
w: Have you and HG set a date yet?
me: no, not yet. Why did you want to be in it?
w: maybe.
me: well we are getting married on Halloween, and you can only be in the wedding if your dressed as a clown.
w:ok, but you have to be Santa, and wear the gray beard.
m: What? What will HG wear?
w: He'll be Cinderella in a big puffy dress
m: I don't know if he'll like that... what about mom & dad? What will they be?
w: Beauty and the beast...
I'm not saying who should be who here, but the little kid had me in stitches all the way down. It's almost a relief at times, to hang out with her, as you forget about any of the real world problems or concerns, and you get to see life thru the eyes of a 10 year old. We did the kayaking thing, we also made a stop at a pull of near a cool river, where we took the picture shown above. When we finally got home, she had completely worn me out, but my life felt a little lighter.
The gift kids can give, without ever knowing.